how to sync btw Endnote for iPad and desktop version of Endnote(Win7) without via Endnote Web?

You need an EndNote Web account to sync. You can activeate the account that comes as part of your purchase of EndNote X6 through the desktop client (recommended), or sign- up for a free account from within the EndNote for iPad app. You do not necessarily ever need to use the web interface of EndNote but you do need an account for Sync to work.

Jason Rollins, the EndNote team